Hello Beautiful Human,


Indifference


Indifference is a neutral ground—the quiet space between holding on too tightly and letting go completely. It’s the restful pause where your heart can finally exhale after carrying the weight of negative emotions for far too long. Whether it’s about a person, a situation, or a lingering memory, this space of indifference offers you a gentle way out of the emotional storm.

Think of the human mind as a vast ocean. Every experience, every fleeting moment, sinks into its depths. Some memories remain dormant, resting quietly on the seabed, while others surface at the slightest trigger, surprising you with their intensity. It’s why you sometimes recall the most trivial details—like the smell of a place or a random comment from years ago—and wonder, “How is this still with me?” The mind is always collecting, always storing.

When negative emotions gather in this ocean, they can churn the waters, stirring up restlessness and anxiety. Indifference, however, is like a gentle tide that settles the storm. It doesn’t deny what happened; it simply no longer allows the waves to crash with the same force. You’re not denying your feelings or pretending the hurt never existed. Instead, you’re creating a neutral, healing ground—a place to rest and recalibrate.

In this stillness, you learn to release the grip of old attachments. You begin to see situations for what they are without the added weight of anger, resentment, or fear.

Indifference isn’t coldness; it’s a sign that your emotional scales have balanced, allowing you to look inward and reclaim your peace, it’s a sign that your spirit has begun to emotionally detach from the negativity and trauma that brought you here & the middle ground or pathway towards healing has begun.

So, permit yourself to dwell in that space of neutrality.

Let your heart rest.

Let your mind find its gentle rhythm again.

Let the ocean of your being remain calm enough for you to observe each wave without being pulled under by it.

In that subtle shift, healing quietly begins.

There is so much to be done in this beauty called life, give yourself the gift of healing that leads to wholeness – Nothing missing, Nothing Broken, Nothing Lacking.

To your Growth,

Temitope Saliu

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